Husband of Mine!

To the point. I never have a 'boyfriend criteria,' I mean the very specific one. Tapi tiba-tiba, dipengaruhi dari lingkungan dan pengalaman, I make some criteria. Well it doesn't mean my husband has to be like that, but...kalo bisa memenuhi ini kriteria, ALHAMDULILLAH :D

1. There's something about Jogja...and the boys :p
I want to have a husband like my Dad. Orang jogja yang santun-santun gimanaaaa gitu. Awawawaaawww <3>

DAPAT MENAKLUKKAN HATI MERTUA (yang adalah bapak saya sendiri!)

Well..at least dia keturunan Jogja tapi manners Jogjanya nurun ke dia. Orang Jawa deh pokoknya, tapi hm..bukan Jawa Barat. Fufufuuuu~ impress me much :p

2. Guy Next Door alias rumahnya gak jauh-jauh dari rumah saya XD
There's always a moment, especially in Ramadhan when I think about not to get married. Why? Here's the reason:

When a couple get married, they will have their own life, own house, build a new family, and usually far from parents. Di Islam, kalo uda nikah, istri itu ngikut suami, suami itu diutamakan sampe ke keluarganya. Kalo idul fitri, paling pertama lebaran di rumah keluarga suami. And I'm thinking..kasian yang punya anak cewek berarti, pasti rumahnya sepi. And I realize, me and my sister, we're both girls and the only my parents have. No older or younger brother. I will not let my parents have an Idul Fitri alone. Not gonna happen.

So, I decided to marry a guy who lives near my house. Well, not literally near tapi masih di 1 kawasan so it's easier for us to meet pas masi pacaran (awawaaww) and pas lebaran bisa ngumpul bareng my and his family. Jadi kita bisa halal bihalal bareng instead of come to my husband's family first then mine. Win-win solution! Isn't that much more fun :D

3. someone who enjoys life

since akhir2 ini lagi heboh galau, gatau kenapa bawaannya ilfeel deh kalo liat cowo galau. well, either boys or girls sih. I mean, if you're having trouble just keep it yourself. I realize sometimes i do that too, tapi there's a difference between someone who try to relieve their emotion for awhile or someone who seems to have the worst (love) life ever. madesu banget hidup lo. i understand when people use especially social networking to share their feeling when terrible things happen to them but PUH-LEASE dont be OVER- exposed. okay you broke up, broken heart but helllooooo thats not the end of the world.

doesnt mean I expect someone who problem-free, no no. I believe everyone has their own problem, but I highly appreciate someone who can control their emotion not to expose things apalagi someone who can keep their unpleasant feeling and all those problems with themselves. you may post it once or twice on twitter or any other social networking but not like every nite every second, duh get a life okay!

Omg, I can't believe I just talked about marriage -_-